When You Have Some Time

Growing up without holidays gave me a different take on Thanksgiving—and gratitude.

22 hrs ago •

Homegirls: The Role of Grace in Friendships with Women, Femmes, and Mothers

Read this when your mom friend cancels again.

Nov 19 •

Privilege, Awareness and Oppression

Read this when self-care is not enough.

Oct 11 •

I turned 40 and waited to feel old but felt free instead.

Read this at your "big" age.

May 30 •

The Nomadic Daughter

Read this when you get home.

Mar 30 •

Community is a Trust Fall

Read this when you need people.

Jan 31 •

A New Year's Evolution.

One enormous thank you, a few minor updates and a request to kindly pay me.

Jan 6 •

Single Moms, Kid-Free Women and Rich Aunties

A few thoughts on liberated, self-defined women and the communities they nurture.

Dec 12, 2023 •

Anyway, Free Palestine.

Read this when caught between rage and rest.

Nov 6, 2023 •

No, Really, I’m Fine.

Read this when you’re definitely not fine.

Oct 4, 2023 •

The Men Are Angry and Afraid

Read this when you seek protection but can't find it.

Sep 6, 2023 •

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